So, the Kiss (or Sign) of Peace.
Yesterday, the Holy Father announced that an ‘investigation’ is underway into ‘the possibility of moving the sign of peace to another place, such as before the presentation of the gifts at the altar.’ I have a slightly anorak-ish interest in this much misunderstood aspect of the rite, so I thought I’d set down a few notes on the question.
First, this is no surprise. This ‘investigation’ had been asked for by the Synod of Bishops, and Cardinal Ratzinger had made the same suggestion a dozen or so years earlier in his book Spirit of the Liturgy, basing his suggestion, as he does in Sacramentum Caritatis, on the Lord’s command : ‘leave your gift there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.’ (Matt 5:24)
At present, there are a number of Roman Catholic worshipping communities who are already well accustomed to this practice: the Ambrosian Rite of Milan has it at this point and the Neocatechumenal Way, the largest of the so-called ‘New Movements’ has for the last 20 years enjoyed an indult, ratified by Benedict XVI in 2005, which permits them to ‘transfer ‘ad experimentum’ the rite of peace to after the Prayer of the Faithful.’ In the Congo, the Holy See has allowed the missal to be amended so that not only the Kiss of Peace but also the Penitential Rite is celebrated at this point.
In the eastern rites, of course, the Kiss of Peace is generally exchanged slightly later than the Holy Father has suggested, after the bread and wine have been brought to the altar but before the anaphora has begun.
But, what is the kiss of peace and why does it currently happen at the moment it does?
The first thing to note is that, insofar as things which have gotten into the liturgy have gotten there for a reason, the Kiss of Peace did not get there so that people could be reconciled with each other or even (at least not directly) so that they could give their desire for reconciliation a ritual expression.
In the early Church, the ‘Holy Kiss’ existed not just as part of the liturgy but as something which permeated the Christian life in a profound way. For example, the contemporary account of the martyrdom of Saints Perpetua and Felicity recalls that they and their companions, at the last moment possible, embraced each other with a kiss ‘that they might accomplish their martyrdom with the rites of peace.’
Thus it was important to them not really as an expression of reconciliation between each other, but more as an expression
of that profound and real peace that comes from Jesus Christ, ’a peace the World cannot give’ (Jn 14:27). But what does it mean to have a peace the world cannot give? Where can we see this peace concretely? For the Early Church, this peace was expressed in the fact that by the grace of God they loved one another as Christ had loved them: the Peace of Jesus Christ is expressed in the loving unity of the christian community. Thus St Augustine says: ’Peace He leaves with us, that here also we may love one another: His own peace He gives us, where we shall be beyond the possibility of dissension.’
And so it seems highly fitting that the Early Church used this intimate sign, the kiss, to demonstrate their loving unity. This is not an early example of what is referred to as ’horizontalism’ or ‘man-centred liturgy’ - these people were not celebrating a natural, sentimental attachment. They were celebrating the fact that whereas once, the power of sin imprisoned them in fear and hatred, unable to love anybody but themselves, they now found that, completely contrary to their own fallen nature,they loved one another with a selfless, Christ-like love.
They knew very well that this love was not their doing; they knew that they carried ’this treasure in earthen vessels, to show that the transcendent power belongs to God and not to us’ (2 cor 4:7) It is this transcendent, supernatural love between the Christians, above anything else, which bewildered and infuriated their persecutors. Hence Tertullian says: ‘But it is mainly the deeds of a love so noble that lead many to put a brand upon us. “See”, they say, “how they love one another”, for they themselves are animated by mutual hatred; “see how they are ready even to die for one another”, for they themselves will sooner put to death.’ This love is the fulfillment of the ‘New Commandment”: ’Love one another even as I have loved you… by this love all men will know that you are my disciples’ (Jn 13 34-35)
Understood properly the Kiss of Peace, this sign of the unity of Christians, expresses in some way the very essence of what the liturgy is: the coming together of the whole Church, united in the sacrificial love of Jesus Christ, to worship and petition the Father in His name. Tertullian again: ’We are a body knit together as such by a common religious profession, by unity of discipline, and by the bond of a common hope. We meet together as an assembly and congregation, that, offering up prayer to God as with united force, we may wrestle with Him in our supplications. This violence God delights in.’
The first specifically liturgical reference to the Kiss of Peace is from the Apology of St Justin Martyr halfway through the second century. After the liturgy of the word ’we salute one another with a kiss, whereupon there is brought to the president bread and a cup of wine’. Josef Jungmann makes an important distinction here: the kiss does not precede the Liturgy of the Eucharist so much as it concludes the Liturgy of the Word. The two were, of course, seperate celebrations originally, and it is this joining together of the two liturgies which led to the practice of delaying the Kiss of Peace until after the anaphora.
This makes perfect sense: whereas originally the community would ratify the intercessions which closed the Liturgy of the Word (our modern day Prayers of the Faithful) by exchanging the Kiss, sign of the fraternal communion which binds them together as the body of Christ, now their kiss expressed not only their unity in these intercessions but also their unity in the greatest prayer of the Christian Church, the very prayer, in fact, through which this unity was built.
So, the kiss of peace originally had a meaning all of its own, and a very beautiful and nuanced one at that. Regrettably however, we must confess that after having all but disappeared for several hundred years, it has resurfaced as a gesture lacking in both spiritual depth and pedagogical usefulness. The anonymity of our liturgical assemblies is certainly a barrier to it being properly understood and experienced in anything other than a cerebral sense, and I am afraid that the ‘updating’ of this meaningful gesture to something as mundane and everyday as a handshake has not helped either.
What the Holy Father is proposing, I would suggest, is not a complete moving away from this original meaning, but perhaps an attempt to alter the emphasis so that people will understand at least a little of its meaning – if the Kiss of Peace is an expression of our unity in the Peace of Christ Jesus, then reconciliation between the brothers and sisters is a neccessary aspect of that unity. In that sense, I tend to approve of the idea.
My great fear, however, is that in practice, the richness of the sign will be denigrated in favour of a sentimental understanding which transforms the Kiss of Peace into something purely human, a sort of liturgical equivalent of the superficial and emotive ’reconciliations’ which occur on daytime TV talk shows or soap operas. To avoid this, I think the words of the priest which precede this moved Kiss of Peace will need to be very carefully composed and that good catechesis will need to be given.